The Friendless Man

Back in 2008, I posted my take on the principle “Never Marry a Man Who Has No Friends.”  For those click link commitment phobes:  to sum it all up, men who do not have close bonds with others usually have intimacy issues and lackluster communication habits.  Father Pat Conner, and forget religion here- it’s not…

Meet The Internet

Bored?   The Internet is just a click away. The act of signing online has radically changed into basically always being online.  The internet is no longer closely associated with desktop computers.  My phone is a miniature computer hooked into the internet.  I’m not going to sit here and tell you about the science behind all…

Take Time

Forget email. Have you ever received a handwritten card or letter in the mail?  Just yesterday, I opened my mailbox and discovered a card from a good friend. She took the time to write by hand, even though she has my email, and it was a very refreshing change.   After all, the medium is the…

After the “friends with benefits” are Gone

It has been 5 months or so since I engaged in sexytimes.   I like sex.  Just not so much that I’ll associate with the men with whom I used to have sexual relations.   These men were not “boyfriends,” just that old cliché’  known as  “friends with benefits.”  During my 20s, these faux relationships seemed worth it, since I didnt…

In RETROSPECT

This coming June, I turn the big 3-0; I’ve learned a lot in my twenties.   The years were difficult most of the time.  Here are some lessons I learned…the hard way.     “When life is hard, you have to change.” — Thank you, Blind Melon.  I gave away my only Blind Melon cd at a gas station…